Sex Therapy

Sex and Relationship Therapy for Individuals & Couples

In-person on the East End of Long Island  · Remotely throughout New York State

Sex Therapy for Lasting Change

When sex works, it is easy and pleasurable. When it doesn’t, it can loom as an insurmountable obstacle to happiness and satisfaction.

Many individuals and couples find themselves dissatisfied and longing for something more in their erotic lives, yet navigating conversations about intimacy can be challenging and uncomfortable.

Whether or not you are in a committed relationship, sexual issues can become too physically and emotionally complicated to resolve on your own. When they go unchecked, disconnection and frustration set in, undermining your overall well-being.

Sex therapy provides a safe and nonjudgmental space for individuals and couples to explore their concerns and desires, ultimately empowering them to navigate their erotic lives with confidence and authenticity.

As an experienced therapist specializing in sex and relationships, I recognize that the obstacles to fulfillment can be overcome. I guide clients to embrace pleasure and intimacy free from guilt, pain, and inhibition.

What to Expect

In our sessions, we'll work collaboratively to explore your goals for sexual intimacy and address any emotional and physical obstacles standing in your way. Through the use of psycho-sexual education, behavioral techniques, and experiential exercises, you gain the insight and skills necessary to enhance your overall sexual well-being.


Building Comfort and Confidence

It's common to feel nervous or embarrassed when discussing sex. You're not alone. As your therapist, I offer a sex-positive, safe, and nonjudgmental space for you to express your concerns and desires. Together, we'll navigate these challenges with compassion, sensitivity, and respect.

Topics Relevant To A Sex Therapy Session

Sex Therapy for Couples:

Desire discrepancy

Difficulty or inability to achieve orgasm

Giving and receiving pleasure

Sexual aversion

Sensitivity to touch

Drop in libido and frequency of intimacy

Poor quality of connection

Sexual pain

Sexual boredom

Affairs, infidelity, and secrets

Opening up

Broken agreements

Safety, consent, resignation, and sexual entitlement

Sexual exploration

Fertility issues, hormones, pregnancy, postpartum, and new parenting

Erotica, porn, turn ons, and turn offs

To finish or not to finish

Sex education

Sexual communication

Sexual trauma and abuse

Illness, aging, and medications


Sex Therapy for Men:

Orientation, expression, coming out

Shame and guilt 

Poor body image

Anal pleasure

Prostate issues, illness, aging, STI’s

Sex education

Communication

Masculinity 

Dating and sex

Erectile unpredictability

Sexual exploration after a breakup or divorce

Ejaculation conerns

Inability to ejaculate

Performance anxiety, and spectatoring

Loss of libido

Sexual insecurity

Out-of-control sexual behavior

Porn use and masturbation

Desire discrepancy

Sexual pain

Sexual trauma and abuse


Sex Therapy for Women:

Loss of libido

Perimenopause, menopause, hormonal changes, PMS, UTI’s, STI’s

Awakening to pleasure and play

Painful intercourse, or inability to experience penetration

Vaginismus, vulvodynia, pelvic pain

Sexual boundaries

Difficulty or inability to achieve orgasm 

Low genital self-esteem

Pregnancy, childbirth, postpartum, birth control

Sexual exploration after a breakup or divorce

Sexual trauma and recovery from sexual abuse

Sexual aversion, shame, and guilt

Lack of sexual confidence

Poor body image

Sexual choices, consent, influence of alcohol and drugs

Communicating needs, desires, turn ons and turn offs

Anal pleasure

Toys, lube, vibrators

Erotica, porn

Sex education

Illness, aging, hormones, medication

Great Sex Is Possible

Are you ready for it?